The Collaborative International Dictionary of English v.0.48:
Bother \Both"er\, v. t. [imp. & p. p. Bothered (?); p. pr. & vb. n. Bothering.] [Cf. Ir. buaidhirt trouble, buaidhrim I vex.] To annoy; to trouble; to worry; to perplex. See Pother. [1913 Webster] Note: The imperative is sometimes used as an exclamation mildly imprecatory. [1913 Webster]