The Collaborative International Dictionary of English v.0.48:

Rueful \Rue"ful\ (r[udd]"f[.u]l), a.
   1. Causing one to rue or lament; woeful; mournful; sorrowful.
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   2. Expressing sorrow. "Rueful faces." --Dryden.
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            Two rueful figures, with long black cloaks. --Sir W.
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      [1913 Webster] -- Rue"ful*ly, adv. -- Rue"ful*ness, n.
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WordNet (r) 3.0 (2006):

ruefully
    adv 1: in a rueful manner; "`I made a big mistake,' he said
           ruefully" [syn: ruefully, contritely, remorsefully]