WordNet (r) 3.0 (2006):
self-pity n 1: a feeling of sorrow (often self-indulgent) over your own sufferingsMoby Thesaurus II by Grady Ward, 1.0:
23 Moby Thesaurus words for "self-pity": benevolence, clemency, commiseration, compassion, condolence, favor, feeling, forbearance, forgiveness, grace, humanity, kindness, leniency, mercy, mitigation, pardon, pathos, pity, quarter, relief, reprieve, ruth, sympathy